When is the problem not really THE problem? What do you do when your star employee on your team underperforms or disappoints you?
The easy answer would be to pounce and criticize. To focus on immediately correcting the issue. Yet, if you do that, you’ll be making a big mistake. Instead, learn from a key lesson I stumbled on early in my career and dig a bit deeper.
In this week’s episode, I share a personal story about how I learned much more than I originally planned when I had to give some tough feedback and coaching to a struggling star employee. You’ll learn what the problem was, what I planned to do, where the conversation went instead, and why that made all the difference in the world. It helped me see how leaders can play the long game to win big with their people.
Listen to our episode on fixing a struggling star employee:
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Lessons and links from today’s episode:
- The hiring method I like to use (give them an assignment)
- Prepare for any 1 on 1 meeting to give feedback by following the Prepare Listen Act model:
- When you have an issue with your team, make sure you check in how their world is going. You may find super important context out. Reserve judgment until you hear the full picture.
- If you make it safe to talk about issues, you may be surprised how candid, apologetic and open your team may be with you. This is priceless. (Learn about creating psychological safety here)
- Always look for the root problem. Don’t simply treat symptoms.
- Ask why something disappointing may have happened and give your star employee the benefit of the doubt.
- If your struggling star employee tells you they’re overwhelmed. Believe them. It’s hard to find replacement stars, so you’re much better off taking care of them.
- Lighten the load
- Make priorities clearer
- Give them a break if needed
- All of these beat having to hire a replacement.
- Yet, always maintain your standards. We still did ultimately talk about the recruiting issue, because it was a problem. But first we fixed the root issue.
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